Heir Today, Gone Tomorrow

Many of my clients ask me if the money they have inherited during a marriage is “off the table” in a divorce. This can be a complicated question, and I often reply, “It depends.”

The general rule in Oregon is that inherited or gifted assets to one spouse during a marriage are not subject to the presumption of equal contribution by the other spouse in a divorce. The exception to this general rule is if a judge determines it would be “just and proper under all the circumstances” to put it back on the table, then it may be divided between the spouses in a divorce.

Let’s break this down with some examples.  If Spouse A inherits $100,000 and deposits the funds in an individual account only in Spouse A’s name, then these funds will, in most cases, be considered the separate property of Spouse A in a divorce from Spouse B.  Meaning, they remain “off the table.”  However, I said, “It depends.” In other cases, for example, where Spouse A transfers the funds to an account held with Spouse B, then those jointly held funds have now become marital assets and subject to a 50/50 division in a future divorce.  Another example is where Spouse A takes the $100,000 and purchases a home with Spouse B where both are on title.  Spouse A has now effectively commingled her $100,000 down payment with Spouse B.  If the parties divorce in the future, then Spouse B is likely going to be entitled to 50% of the home equity including the benefit of any equity created by Spouse A’s $100,000 down payment.  It is difficult to anticipate under which set of circumstances a judge might award Spouse B a share of Spouse A’s inheritance if Spouse A kept it separately from Spouse B continuously throughout the marriage.

Each case is decided on its particular facts. The moral of this story is you should never commingle any inheritance you may receive during a marriage without understanding the legal impact of such a decision. Keep it separate until you can consult with an attorney who can advise you before making costly mistakes you may not be able to reverse.

Gray Divorces – What are they and do I need one?

The term “gray divorce” has been trending for the last few years.  It is a popular term, and not a legal one. It relates to couples who have been in long term marriages and who discover in their later years that they just don’t want to be married to their spouse any longer. These divorces have been on the rise in my practice since coming out of the pandemic. Clients have shared that sitting in isolation for those many months allowed them to consider changes in their lives and what that would look like for themselves, their soon to be ex-spouse, and perhaps their adult children who have since left the nest.

Gray divorces are not to be taken lightly. There are serious financial issues to consider when contemplating divorce in your 50’s and later.  Many of my clients have done well saving for retirement and strategic tax planning and gifting throughout their marriage. In any divorce, gray or not, the collective bucket of money is divided and what was one set of household expenses is soon doubled.

Divorcing later in life carries its own unique considerations. Typically, retirement savings are divided in half, the marital residence which might finally be paid off is likely to be sold, and the tax planning benefits you may have had as spouses go away.  Current interest rates continue to be high; so even if you aren’t selling the house, one of you will still need a place to live.  For example, are you the one buying a new home and incurring a 15 or 30 year mortgage with an interest rate above 6% at age 55?

As in any divorce, it is important to know your rights, and understand the financial and emotional impacts it may have before you decide which way to go at the fork in the road.

– Christine Costantino

 

 

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